Our personality is a set of ” yoes” that sometimes they enter conflict of interests Using one ” metfora” it is a species of Congress, or Parliament, and at the time of the voting on a subject in particular, something exceeds what there is to decide, ” mayora” , it raises to the hand by the affirmation and some hands ” minoritarias” by the refusal That ” minora” often ends up sabotaging the project then is very useful to establish a mechanism of internal negotiation technical Existen of the Neurolingustica Programming that allows to work the inner conflicts in a person, to be able ” to restore equilibrio” and the inner harmony the balance is dynamic, a equilibrista that happens through a cord, is in continuous imbalance what happens is that inclines towards a side and imperceptibly compensates towards the other opposite side thus conserves the general balance if it remained totally quiet, it would lose the balance, and it would fall. It is easy that parts different from our personality that they contain different beliefs, values, ” ambiciones” , they enter conflict. A typical example is when we are working and we want to rest when finally we took ourselves someday from rest, a part ” exigente” ” Interior” censor; to impidedisfrutar to us totally of the pleasure to rest thus, we felt with remorses of brings back to consciousness, and there, while we are ” descansando” appears ” in escena” (in our mental scene) all the tasks, which ” we have hacer” to learn to negotiate with you mismo/a, with your internal parts, you must irremediably, ponerte in contact with your ” Interiores” personages; All we have ” Interiores” personages; , that they momentarily dispute the control of the personality, to say it somehow You can have for example ” Interior” censor; , ” alguien” that from your interior it says things to you or somehow shows to you that YOU DO NOT HAVE to make tal o cual thing or ” not puedes” is demanding, inflexible, applies a censorship and tries to impose the fulfillment of ” first of all; obligaciones” often transforms into a voice (or a sensation) ” molesta” that it prevents to enjoy or it destabilizes the attempts to make things new and outside which is ” rutina” or established You can have others ” Interiores” personages; somebody creative ” The Interior” Artist; , or ” Crtico” , or ” The Perfectionist Extremo” ” The Optimista” or that wise voice that advises ” wisely; Interior” Wise person; Really, tries to detect as they are your own internal personages and how they are pronounced in your case..